Migrate harness from in-memory stores to CloudNativePG

Replace all in-memory Map-backed stores (credentials, models, agents,
tasks, iterations, usage) with Drizzle ORM queries against the
homelab-pg PostgreSQL cluster. All store functions are now async.

- Add 6 harness_* tables to @homelab/db schema
- Generate and apply initial Drizzle migration
- Add lazy DB connection proxy to avoid build-time errors
- Wire DATABASE_URL from sealed secret into harness deployment
- Update all API routes, orchestrator, executor, and boot to await
  async store operations

packages/db/drizzle/meta/_journal.json

@@ -0,0 +1,13 @@
+{
+  "version": "7",
+  "dialect": "postgresql",
+  "entries": [
+    {
+      "idx": 0,
+      "version": "7",
+      "when": 1774124029586,
+      "tag": "0000_sparkling_gressill",
+      "breakpoints": true
+    }
+  ]
+}