Add observability stack: ServiceMonitors, Tempo, OTel API instrumentation, dashboards

- Add ServiceMonitors for Traefik, ArgoCD, and Longhorn
- Enable cert-manager ServiceMonitor via helm values
- Deploy Grafana Tempo for distributed tracing (single-binary, Longhorn PVC)
- Add Tempo datasource with trace-to-logs and trace-to-metrics correlation
- Instrument API with OpenTelemetry SDK (Prometheus metrics + OTLP traces)
- Replace console.log with pino structured logging + pino-http middleware
- Add Grafana dashboards for Traefik, API overview, and PostgreSQL (CNPG)

infra/kubernetes/observability/kube-prometheus-stack/dashboards/postgres.yaml

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+apiVersion: v1
+kind: ConfigMap
+metadata:
+  name: postgres-dashboard
+  namespace: observability
+  labels:
+    grafana_dashboard: "1"
+data:
+  postgres.json: |
+    {
+      "annotations": { "list": [] },
+      "editable": true,
+      "graphTooltip": 1,
+      "id": null,
+      "links": [],
+      "panels": [
+        {
+          "title": "Active Connections",
+          "type": "timeseries",
+          "gridPos": { "h": 8, "w": 12, "x": 0, "y": 0 },
+          "targets": [
+            {
+              "expr": "cnpg_backends_total",
+              "legendFormat": "{{ pod }}"
+            }
+          ]
+        },
+        {
+          "title": "Transactions per Second",
+          "type": "timeseries",
+          "gridPos": { "h": 8, "w": 12, "x": 12, "y": 0 },
+          "targets": [
+            {
+              "expr": "rate(cnpg_pg_stat_database_xact_commit{datname=\"homelab\"}[5m])",
+              "legendFormat": "commits {{ pod }}"
+            },
+            {
+              "expr": "rate(cnpg_pg_stat_database_xact_rollback{datname=\"homelab\"}[5m])",
+              "legendFormat": "rollbacks {{ pod }}"
+            }
+          ],
+          "fieldConfig": {
+            "defaults": { "unit": "ops" }
+          }
+        },
+        {
+          "title": "Replication Lag (bytes)",
+          "type": "timeseries",
+          "gridPos": { "h": 8, "w": 12, "x": 0, "y": 8 },
+          "targets": [
+            {
+              "expr": "cnpg_pg_replication_lag",
+              "legendFormat": "{{ pod }}"
+            }
+          ],
+          "fieldConfig": {
+            "defaults": { "unit": "bytes" }
+          }
+        },
+        {
+          "title": "Database Size",
+          "type": "stat",
+          "gridPos": { "h": 8, "w": 12, "x": 12, "y": 8 },
+          "targets": [
+            {
+              "expr": "cnpg_pg_database_size_bytes{datname=\"homelab\"}",
+              "legendFormat": "{{ pod }}"
+            }
+          ],
+          "fieldConfig": {
+            "defaults": { "unit": "bytes" }
+          }
+        }
+      ],
+      "schemaVersion": 39,
+      "tags": ["homelab", "postgres", "cnpg"],
+      "templating": { "list": [] },
+      "time": { "from": "now-6h", "to": "now" },
+      "title": "PostgreSQL (CloudNativePG)",
+      "uid": "postgres-cnpg"
+    }